Benahavís is renowned for its gastronomic offerings, earning it the title of the "dining room of the Costa del Sol." The town's numerous restaurants serve a variety of Andalusian and international cuisines, attracting food enthusiasts from afar.
It always starts the same way. A half-joke about packing up and leaving. An eye-roll over city rent. A passing glance at a life by the sea. Then someone says it out loud—“Why don’t we just move?” And, suddenly, it’s not a joke.
That’s where the Costa del Sol enters the picture. Not the usual glitz-and-glam Marbella, but the quieter corners. Towns with names you’ve heard in passing—Estepona, Benahavís, La Cala, Casares—the ones that don’t shout, don’t flash, but have quietly become the places people move to when they’re done pretending they enjoy the grind.
This Is Not Retirement. This Is Living Properly.
There’s a difference between slowing down and switching on. What these small towns offer isn’t escape. It’s alignment. You wake up, not to an alarm, but to light sneaking through linen curtains. You drink your coffee hot. Your back stops hurting. You start walking places. You realise it’s not about having less, but finally having only what matters.
The Towns Worth Talking About
You could scatter pins on a map and land somewhere nice on this coastline. But these four towns have pulled ahead—and for good reason.
Estepona: The One with a Pulse and a Past
Ten years ago, Estepona was the backup plan. Now it’s the one everyone’s quietly chasing. Whitewashed buildings. Actual locals. A marina that’s still used by boats, not influencers. It’s the town Marbella used to be—before the branding consultants arrived.
- What’s Here: Boutique hotels, a flower-strewn old town, beach clubs without bottle service, and real fishmongers.
- Homes: Renovated townhouses, penthouses with rooftop pools, and new-build flats five minutes from the sea.
- Who Moves Here: People who want a social life, but no performance. School-age families. Couples who like both art and affordable wine.
Benahavís: High Ground, Low Drama
Benahavís is seven minutes inland, and an entire world quieter. The air changes as you drive up. Pines. Silence. And houses that don’t need to be seen to be valuable. This is where people with real money—and no need for validation—set up home.
- What’s Here: Golf. Hiking. Fine dining without velvet ropes. Some of Spain’s top chefs have kitchens here.
- Homes: Modernist mansions. Gated villas. The kind of places with driveways longer than most rental agreements.
- Who Moves Here: Second-time buyers. Remote executives. People allergic to noise and nonsense.
La Cala de Mijas: Where Real Life Happens
La Cala has a butcher, a dentist, and a square where people actually talk to each other. There’s a decent café on the beach where the espresso doesn’t cost €6. And for all its convenience, it hasn’t lost the feel of a working town.
- What’s Here: Boardwalks, padel courts, ice cream you’ll accidentally eat every day.
- Homes: Beachfront flats, tidy villas, and modern townhouses where you can open every window and not hear a nightclub.
- Who Moves Here: Tech workers. Freelancers. Parents who want their kids to grow up outdoors.
Casares: The Quiet One on the Hill
Casares doesn’t care if you’ve heard of it. Perched inland, it’s a storybook town with goats on the hills and a pace that doesn’t rush for anyone. Not for everyone—but perfect for some.
- What’s Here: Olive groves, silence, proper Spanish food.
- Homes: Fincas, hilltop villas, homes with land and views so wide they make your brain go quiet.
Who Moves Here: Artists. Writers. People who've done cities, big jobs, loud lives—and are ready for something else.

Casares stands out with its picturesque whitewashed buildings perched on a hillside, offering panoramic views of the surrounding countryside.
The Lifestyle Isn’t Leisure. It’s Structure.
This isn’t about hammock naps (though you can have them). It’s about days that work.
- Golf: Over 70 courses stretch along the coast. Some famous. Some local and brilliant.
- Beaches: Clean. Swimmable. Often empty outside summer weekends.
- Food: Tapas for lunch. Sea bass grilled to order. Michelin stars if you fancy them, but most meals will be under €30 and better than anything you’d eat in Soho.
- Community: You’ll actually know your neighbours. Spanish, Dutch, British, Swedish. All here. All staying.
What’s the Market Doing?
Not crashing. Not bubbling. Just growing like it should.
- Estepona is up 4.2% this year.
- Benahavís properties went up 3.9%.
- La Cala, boosted by its location and community appeal, jumped 5.1%.
- Casares remains undervalued—but not for long.
According to Mike Naumann Immobilien, 2025 is the year second-tier towns become first-choice destinations—especially among buyers looking to semi-retire or build location-flexible lives.
Five Practical Tips for a Smart Move to the Costa del Sol
- Visit Off-Season: Come in October or February. You’ll get a better feel for the real pace of local life—and see which areas hold up when the tourists go home.
- Work with a Lawyer: Always use an independent local solicitor. Ideally, one who speaks your language and understands cross-border tax implications.
- Check Fibre Coverage: Most towns are wired, but if you’re planning to work remotely, double-check internet speeds before signing anything.
- Understand the Tax Residency Rules: If you’re in Spain for more than 183 days per year, you’re likely tax-resident. Plan accordingly.
- Try Before You Buy: Rent short-term in the town you’re eyeing for three months. Explore the schools, gyms, local shops. Take notes. Then decide.
What We Offer (That Other Agents Don’t)
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The Real Question Is: What’s Stopping You?
There won’t be a perfect time. There will be school terms, office obligations, things to tie up. But every year you wait is a year spent in the wrong postcode.
You don’t need to rush. But you do need to start.
Click through to www.ultimate-lifestyles.com. Look at the properties. Picture the days. Then give us a call. We’ll talk you through it—quietly, like the towns we specialise in.